Many of our life experiences with our closed or perhaps not so close acquaintances are coloured by our very own evaluation of the other individuals.
It is very commonly seen that we individuals have a general predisposition to categorize people around us into our very set of rigid parameters of either good or I don’t want to use much intense words so more subtly the lesser liked ones.
We seem to get easily caught in the vicious cycle of judging a person instinctively on our brief interaction.
Unfortunately we fall easy prey to some of the markers undeniably
Physical appearance is one of the key factors in any society which inevitably draws your attention. Can a good looking person happens to have fair chance of winning the attention of people around. The answer is most probably yes for many. A person with complementary looks is seen to get hired easily for jobs calling for presentable personality.
Great communication skills turn out to be another deciding factor for many how well they will gel with the other person. People with remarkable oratory skills can find alliance with people who tremendously lack these skills.
Power and position held by the person of prominence can also arouse interest in others.
Our interaction with the outside world more or less depends upon whom we validate socially and how well that person lives upto our standards.
These bises prejudices and wrong notions we just keep on nurturing in our minds do no good for us rather it simply ruins our psyche and builds a kind of mental blockage which refrains us from seeing anything good in the less preferred individual in our lives and also because of that on the other hand we fail to see the vices in the people who have colored our vision.